A Marriage Shaped by Grace Today, Kendall and I celebrate our fortieth wedding anniversary. Forty years feels both wonderfully long and surprisingly quick. When I look back at our original wedding photograph, I see two people beginning a life together without knowing where that life would take them—or how much joy, growth, healing, laughter, challenge, and grace those years would contain. I love the life we have built together in our mountain home. Some of our happiest moment